Hey! Watch me kick my own ass.

Hey! Watch me kick my own ass.   Oof. I blew it. I mean I really, really, ROYALLY screwed up. I missed my best friend’s dad’s funeral. Why? I forgot. Ugh. Can you even? I sure as hell can’t even. I have been properly flogging myself for days. And because that has...

Self-Love & Collateral Damage

Self-Love & Collateral Damage   Sometimes you have to pick yourself. And sometimes that means hurting other people. As an Enneagram 8 (a “rugged individualist”), I’m used to that. I don’t WANT to hurt other people. I don’t look forward to it. I don’t like...

Waiting For Your Entrepreneur-ship To Come In?

Waiting For Your Entrepreneur-ship To Come In? I was driving home after a wild goose chase of a wedding dress-hunt with my daughter (an hour and a half out of town so she could try on ONE dress, only to realize it wasn’t the ONE.)   But she’s loving her...

You’re my hero

You’re my hero You know that one time you did that super hard thing that almost killed you? (But it didn’t.) And not only did it not take you out but you emerged smarter and stronger for it? Wow. Good job. Honestly. That was some shit, and you survived it, then...

Are you in Limbo, sinner?

Are you in Limbo, sinner? You don’t have to do something bad to land in Limbo (unless you’re Catholic), you just have to be human. And right now, many of us humans are in our own personal purgatory. Straddling what was and what is…and even what will be. (Do you...

Your Filthy Mind

Your Filthy Mind Think on this: that thing you call your mind isn’t even real. It’s just…thoughts, but they can be a real sh*tshow. And that steaming pile of intangibles might be crapping all over your actual life. Time to flush, friends! The thing is, you’re probably...